One thing I hear a lot from, let me add, "beautiful", mamas or mamas-to-be is this: "I am unattractive", "I have gained too much weight", "My skin is all messed up because of all the hormones", "I am not photogenic", or some variation of these. AND, because of this, "could you please not include me in the photos, and just focus on [baby/grandparents/dad]". *sigh* Let me start of by saying, "I understand!". I have been there. I put on lots of weight too; I felt horrible about